It is a must for parents to pay attention to the development of their own children, but you need to know some things that you should pay attention to your child from age 1 to 5 years until adolescence, because the character and psychological children formed in that age
The first thing you should notice is that children who play actively are intelligent and that is already natural because by playing they have also learned and played their minds for imagination, many skills that can be developed by the child in playing.
You need to know that the game is very important for the development of talents and abilities of the child, then parents should pursue opportunities as well as good so that children want to play, and also allow to give their Education Toys in order to develop the mindset of children.
If your child is afraid of some animals, introduce them through the animal-shaped toys that he feared, over time he will not be afraid of it, learn to know the numbers can also be faster if you give a toy of numbers to your child who is still aged 2 to 3 years, all you need to remember is toys can increase the creativity of children, so if children often play with certain items then leave it alone.
Children where always move is more intelligent because it improves their academic ability, while children who rarely play with toys or play outside with friends such as playing games gadgets / computers at home do not have a good cognitive and socioemosional development, physical activity such as sports Can significantly improve child memory (this also applies to adults even to the elderly)
Patient and assertive is the key to self-reliance, Parents would want his child to be independent but sometimes even parents who inhibit it to happen, independence needs to be taught since children stepped on kindergarten because an independent child would not have you worry if something happened to him In the future when you are not with him and instill independence in children will make the child become more successful, but if the independence feels slow then the parents must be patient and because fast / slow the independence of children is not a congenital factor and you should teach it slowly until he understands.
Learn carefully about Money does not mean stingy, every child has a different experience about money, there are savvy savers and clever spending, there is also a wasteful, parents big spiritually in teaching children to manage money for the future, parents should not give The negative impression in using the money in front of the child, such as anger, fear and hatred because the child will think the money will be considered unpleasant for the child, as when you have a bloated bill and you had complained in front of your partner who watched by your child Alone, it is worth avoiding because money can motivate people even a small child will be motivated if will be given money with a condition.
Children may be angry so do not miss, habit of angry since childhood also influence with the satisfaction of life later, parents must be wary if child anger cause friction with its environment,
Temper Tantrum - The emotional explosion of the child, this emotion can be manifested by the child's renegekan, crying, screaming crying, overthrowing the body on the floor and so on, usually this behavior only applies at the age of 1 to 3 years and parents need to do Anger Management for children by talking Who is warm with the child about what makes him feel angry and find a solution.
The myth of the eldest son is smarter than the younger son is a fact, because the eldest child has more mental stimulation in the growth period, but the younger child has a more stable emotion. And it is important for parents to be impartial between the two of them because under certain circumstances their behavior can both change suddenly, such as when vacationing and parents should not be too demanding of their eldest child because it will become a psychological burden and disrupt the growth.
And interesting facts about children are single children are usually smarter and easier to learn, single children also tend to be happier because they have no relatives (research from Ohio Unversity in 2010), and other things you need to know an only child tends to be a bit more Fat because it's easier to feed him and lead him to a healthy diet or a snack.
And the last thing you need to know, the child is a reflection of both his own parents. And the formation of his character is also easily influenced by the environment, so be careful in caring for children, not too hard and not too spoiled, give room for them to move but still in your supervision.
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